Nine Reasons Why Mentoring Matters to You
Coaching and Mentoring
Being a mentor is one of the best things you can do.
There are many roles we play or hats we wear in our lives.
我们扮演的角色
我们是：
- Professionals
- 家庭成员
- Brothers
- 姐妹
- 同事
- 领导人
- Coaches
- 朋友
- Parents
- 邻居
to name just a few. While you may not wear all of the hats I listed, you can likely add several more that I left out!
负责任的成年人
很多这样的角色都是既定的，作为一个负责任的成年人，我们没有太多的选择。
Because of these many roles, we find ourselves very busy.
许多任务和优先事项发现我们现在可能比以往任何时候都要忙！
Too Many Roles Too Little Time
With these two factors, many roles and little time, it may seem absurd to write an article that encourages taking on yet another role and adding another task to your over-booked calendar.
But that is exactly what I am going to do. In this article, I’m going to show you why, despite the competition for our time and energy, being a mentor is one of the best things you can do.
Being A Mentor Is Valuable
There are many reasons why being a mentor is valuable to the other person.
They get the value of your expertise, knowledge, and experience.
他们有机会更快地前进，创造更大的成功，而不是没有你的洞察力和建议。
Benefits Of Being A Mentor
While these are altruistic reasons, they don’t say anything about how you benefit. And while we all like to help others, sometimes we need to see what is in it for us as well.
There are benefits to you personally to spending your time and energy, sharing your expertise with others as a mentor.
In fact, there are at least nine benefits that you might derive from being a mentor.
These include:
1关系
You’ll develop a close relationship with your mentee.
我们永远不会有足够亲密的关系。
你指导的人很有可能是你身边的人。
毕竟，他们对提高自己很感兴趣，关心学习，可能对未来的可能性很兴奋。
Which brings me to the second benefit.
2重新通电
You’ll be re-energised personally.
与热情的人交往，你自己自然会变得更热情。有些活动消耗我们的能量，而另一些活动则激发我们的能量。
Being a mentor is like carrying a book of matches with you.
If you want to re-energise yourself to your own possibilities, be a mentor.
3. Career Boost
You’ll increase your commitment to your own career and organisation.
如果你在商业环境中进行指导，这一条最适用。
You can see how this would happen as you get more enthused, you see new ways you can contribute.
你可以看到你的学员如何在组织中有所作为，这个新的愿景将增加你的承诺。
4. Learning
You’ll learn more by talking about and teaching things.
我们的大脑是如何工作的很有趣。当我们教别人一些东西或向别人解释一些东西时，我们自己就会更清楚地理解它。
As a mentor, you will relive experiences, teach or share ideas. And when you do this you will learn and re-learn these concepts for yourself.
通常，你会发现自己采纳自己的建议对你的个人或职业都有很大的好处。
5更具影响力
You’ll expand your impact within your organisation.
不仅你的个人承诺会增加，而且当你帮助他人更成功时，组织也会在更高层次上取得成功。
Think of the satisfaction you will get from knowing you are playing a part in making that happen.
6. Self-Esteem
You’ll enhance your self-esteem.
It just feels good to help others.
You will feel better about yourself and your abilities when you share your wealth of knowledge and experience with others.
你的自尊会上升，因为你在为别人做好事。
7. Increased Skills
你会提高你的技能。
当你指导别人时，你会成为一个更好的导师。
使你成为更好导师的技能：同理心、倾听、关心、建立信任（仅举几个例子），使你在生活的其他许多方面更有效率。
Being a mentor is actually great training in itself!
8.信心
You’ll grow more confident.
许多其他好处的最终结果是你的信心会增强。
You’ll be more confident in many sorts of interpersonal relationships and conversations.
你会知道你能产生积极的影响。
You’ll know that you can make a difference.
9遗产
You’ll leave a legacy.
Successful athletic coaches do more than grow their teams and win lots of games.
The best also create a lineage of coaches that leave their staff to become head coaches as well.
This is an important legacy that they leave a statement of their influence and impact.
By mentoring others with care and compassion you will be adding directly to your legacy.
Be A Little Selfish
Take a minute now to be selfish.
Think about yourself as a mentor.
确定你所看到的是什么。
Envision how it will feel to give back to someone else.
Then go out and become a mentor you, along with your mentee, will be glad you did!
This article was contributed by Kevin Eikenberry
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