Making a Plan for the Impossible
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我们大多数人都有我们渴望的梦想和目标。
Lifestyle or professional aims that we keep on our wish list.
Sometimes, we even achieve them.
More often than not, though, they reappear on New Year's resolution lists year after year.
They loom on to do lists (the ones that never get actioned and thus keep rolling over like un-won lottery jackpots).
他们遇到了与最近的，最亲近的心灵变为“只有”和“为什么不能？”和'IL'l永远无法'。
Fundamentally, there is a way of being that most of us have in common that manages to keep us from attaining the things we say we want. A colleague of ours says that there is a conspiracy to keep people small. This means keeping people small enough in their desires, wants and wishes so that the rest of us won't find them any trouble or feel threatened by their big aspirations or feel guilty that we don't go out and achieve big things as well.
我们中的大多数人对真正雄心勃勃的人感到不舒服。我们喜欢现状;我们不喜欢太不同的人。我们想知道我们在哪里 - 和你 - 是。它是安全的。
Now this conspiracy we're talking about is an odd one: there's no 'they' in it - the 'they' is us. But because just about everyone's in on it, we collude and think and act as if its true. We, most of us, paint our lives on very small canvases; the big ones scare us silly.
Heres what we mean.
Think for a minute about what you want ito be improvedin your life. More money? A better home? More fulfilling relationships? A pay rise?
例如，你需要多少钱来解决自己？
The common reply to this is 10% to 25% more. It doesn't seem to matter what someone's present level of prosperity is, most peopleanywhere in the world比如，比目前的10％〜25％的人会更好。这种增加的是与我们认为尽可能的想法。这种思考似乎旨在确保一种成功。“如果我愿意在其他人所说的是现实（包括我自己）中，那么我肯定会有一个让他们的机会，也不会？”
小思维。
This is how small thinking works. Say you're earning 20,000. If you got 25% more that would make it 25,000. To achieve that you may have to work harder, put in more overtime, angle for promotion, perhaps even make some investments. But they'd be things that you know you could do; they'd be familiar to you. You might grouse a bit for having to work "all the hours God sends" but it is within your possibilities to achieve your 25% more.
Some time ago, just before we set up the company, the partners of Impact Factory came across a tool to break this pattern of small thinking. Indeed, it was partly the reason we set up the company in the first place. We didn't exactly want to take over the world, but we had (and still have) big ambitions and a fierce desire to break away from attitudes that kept our creativityandour pocketbooks small.
Heres the actual tool:
CVS * BVS BVS = CVS x 10
这就是它的意思：
目前存在的情况（现在的事情）CVS
并且有更好的情况（我希望事情是如何）BVS
OK, so what if the better view (BVS) was not just a little better than the current view (CVS), but hugely better. Not 10% to 25% better. Not twice as good (200%). But ten times better (1000%).
如果更好的视图等于当前视图的10倍？
BVS = 10 x CVS
What would then have to happen to make things 1000% better?
Most of us have no idea. We cant even conceive of how we would get there. We don't even know where to start. And faced with that enormity, most of don't ever begin, or we go out and play the lottery in the belief that once that ship comes in then I might be able to get to this ten times business.
我们所做的就是看看我们能够在那里设想和开始的东西。不幸的是，把你的能量置于那里，立即限制你的小思维和小行动。
“如果你做了更多的是你一直这样做的话，你会得到更多你已经拥有的东西。”
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换句话说，如果你继续做你一直这样做的事情，你就会让你的更多相同。
Therefore, something else has to happen. But what do you do when you really, well and truly believe you can't do anything more, or youve tried everything possible?
简单地，你的思想不能保持不变。你的做不能保持不变。当然，你的信仰不能保持不变。你需要迈出一步之遥。请记住几年前关于范式转变的所有东西？好吧，这是一个人的时间！
这是CVS到BVS的地方。这个过程有助于人们使那个飞跃，而不是试图在黑暗中做到这一点。
"Some men dream of worthy accomplishments, while others stay awake and do them." - Anon.
所以CVS：当前的视图。现在你现在的现实是什么？让我们从钱开始。该过程将与您生活中的任何方面都合作，但首先掌握使用金钱和工作所涉及的概念更容易。
说你赚了25,000。
Then BVS (the better view) has to be ten times better than that.
Ten times 25,000 would be 250,000.
但是必须怎样让它变得更好十倍？当然，你不能再做一次。你不能简单地获得促销或幸运的书。如果你认真对待飞跃，你必须在彻底改变你的生活方式的方法。您对事物的许多信念将不再工作。
This can really be difficult, asking yourself to change a whole chunk of your belief systems in order to achieve (or at least attempt to achieve) something much bigger for your life. We know that most people do dream of big changes, but don't want to actually do anything different to get there. A bit of a contradiction there, but typical of most thinking.
这是迎接这个过程的挑战！
只是为了启动你，你必须习惯于失败不仅仅是好的，而且是不可避免的。想一想。如果您将新目标设置为当前情况的十倍，包括更改对该目标的思维，态度和策略，并失败悲惨地，您仍将移动到比您在寻找25％并成功的距离更远的距离！！
这个过程
OK so set aside your doubts and fears for a moment and lets get on with the process.
You can do this on your own but it works much better with a friend or colleague. We usually can see someone else's difficulties more clearly and objectively than our own.
Get yourself a large sheet of paper.
Set your self a goal that's 10 times better than your current situation.
你认为不可能的东西。
Write it in the top right hand corner of the page
然后设置你的旧的目标(25%)the same issue and write it in the bottom right hand corner of the page.
现在解决你如何达到25％的目标。它很有可能能够看到一系列的步骤和一个特定的时间线，即某些动作，即您可以制定计划并知道首先做什么。你可以看到前进的方式。
现在尝试用10 x进球。
这里的步骤不太可能清楚。我有时会想到它就像你在日历上获得的那些经典的中国画画之一。你可以看到前景，你可以看到遥远的山脉，但中间的位是旋转雾。
OK, so now the deal here is to work backwards.
Ask yourself what life would have to be like just before you achieved your goal. What would have to have happened? Who would be involved? Where would you be? What would you be doing?
当你有这一步清晰,你的方式工作in a series of before that steps until you reach the step you can take now. I.e. the first thing you'll have to do if you want to start on your journey towards the bigger goal.
This is unlikely to be the same step as the first step on your way to the smaller goal.
然而，它可能是将改变您进入的方向的东西。
虽然这个过程听起来很简单，但它可以很努力。
It happens to just about everyone who attempts it, so you're not alone! All your resistance to doing differently could quite possibly emerge. In many ways its like learning a whole new skill from scratch (such as learning to drive, when you know what the end goal is (passing the test) but you feel inept and frustrated trying out the new skill (like hill starts).
为了帮助您，在这里有几个实际计划可以帮助您查看工作。
罗宾：在我早期的职业生涯中，我每年赚3,000左右。将其提高25％至3,750件容易;我只需要申请更多的工作。将更多的应用程序字母写入更多剧院。获得更多的试镜。
将CVS应用于BVS公式，这里我的行为工作收入将是30,000。那时候我似乎不太可能。
向后工作的一系列步骤是
就在之前
需要在电视和商业广告中始终如一地工作，以及大型剧院的良好作用
在那之前
Need to have a track record in making TV and Commercials
在那之前
Need to have my work known by influential casting directors
在那之前
需要在伦敦通知，并在伦敦靠近人们可以看到的工作
First step
Need to limit the distance I work away from London!!!
So there it was. Instead of applying for any jobs I could find, I had to stop applying for jobs in theatres where I had been working that were too far away from London and stop accepting offers from companies to tour the country.
Jo Ellen: I've got a different kind of example. A few years ago I was living in my flat and realised I just wasn't that happy with it. So I did the ten-times exercise.
I started off saying that if I currently had a one bedroom flat, then ten times would mean ten bedrooms. As soon as I put that down as my goal, my heart sank.
我意识到我不想要一间卧室平，房子，大篷车或其他任何非常大的居住地，谢谢。
所以这是对BVS练习进行CVS的一个好结果：让我很明显，我的生活住宿的十次不是答案。而且你可能会发现它也发生在你身上。你可能会开始试图完全摆脱正常的思维方式，然后意识到你不想要它;或者你可能需要做什么来实现它不是你现在的位置。
However, I still had an unhappy flat and an unhappy me.
所以我尝试了一个不同版本的公式：如果我当前的价格比当时的十倍更好，那么怎么了？尤里卡！我马上有一张它看起来像什么，并且从那里工作的东西很容易。我不仅不必搬家，但我现在有一个公寓，每当我走进来时，每次都会充满欢乐。
你会发现，如果你认真对待BVS项目的CVS，你将需要在三到六个月后重新运行这个过程，左右，生活将改变，也可能是你的目标。事实上，如果你开始在你开始致力于他们的目标没有改变，那就非常感到惊讶。因为它们的范围比25％的东西更广泛，所以你的观点也会更广泛。你会以不同的方式看到的事情，我们的猜测是你会在你走的时候开始精炼和重新定义你的目标。
这个过程迫使你开出你限制信仰的盒子，并推动你以彻底改变你的生活的视角和信仰。
您可以将这些想法与繁荣融为一体：不仅仅是货币增加，而且在你生命中的所有领域。也许你需要在你的关系方面更好地看待一下，你的闲暇时间，你给别人的支持，你自己的福祉等。
Once understood, this leap in perspective can be used for anything.
So, what do you really want? Now make a plan for the impossible.
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