现代传播艺术
沟通技巧
沟通的第一个重要步骤是观察你想要沟通的人。
Look for all those non-verbal clues and you will discover how the person is really receiving the message you are giving her.
必要的沟通
In our everyday lives,communication无论我们喜不喜欢，它几乎和呼吸一样重要。
Modern technologies and the ever-growing web are making communication around the world possible in a matter of seconds.
为什么人与人之间的交流如此缺乏成效呢？
Why is there more misunderstanding and divorces than ever?
这个Art of Communication
部分原因是，在我们这个充满压力、瞬息万变的社会，我们已经忘记了沟通的艺术。
这个沟通的第一个重要步骤是观察你想要沟通的人。
Look for all those non-verbal clues and you will discover how the person is really receiving the message you are giving her.
肢体语言
这个肢体语言比说的话更真实。
如果一个人笑着说：“是的，我感觉很好”，那么她的潜意识就会向你伸出援手。
我经常反映我从病人那里得到的非语言信息。
结果总是显示出他们的真实感情。
一旦我表现出接受能力，他们就能够敞开心扉，感到非常欣慰。
你不重要
This is the reason if a person is with another person, a prolonged cell phone conversation with other people just spells out; "You are not that important to me.
I would rather talk about futilities with this remote person." ...so close your cell phones if you are already with someone.
Next, it has been described that people prefer certain communication modes more than others.
A person who likes to see things is said to function more on a visual mode.
For example, if I buy an e-book, I always have to print it and see it on paper.
I also learn way more efficiently if I write the material I have to learn.
Visual People
视觉人会用这样的表达方式来表达自己：“很高兴见到你。让我们说清楚。我明白了”，等等。
举个例子，当你开始注意的时候，你发现你的上司在工作中更多的是以视觉模式运作。
You can use this knowledge whenever you address him a report or a note by providing him with colourful graphics and always leave him a printed version of what you have told him so he can look at it later.
Auditory People
第二，据说有些人的听觉更强。
这个y love to hear stuff.
他们通常有这样的表达：“我听到了。听！生活是一首甜美的旋律”，等等。
You will have more success with them by talking and playing with words.
动觉的人
Other people are said to be kinesthetic.
他们通过触摸和感受不同的纹理来学习和与环境互动。
当我和三个孩子去跳蚤市场时，我意识到孩子们天生就有动觉，我一定说过：“不要碰！”一小时内至少六十次。
If you look at babies their whole world is explored by going through their hands, feet and mouth.
We lose this marvellous way of communicating from all the interdiction around us and it is sad.
我知道下次我和我的孩子去购物，我不会禁止他们碰任何东西，我会和他们一起碰所有的东西！
Olfactory People
这个re is nothing like a good perfume for an olfactory person but tastes vary so much in this area that it is hard to please everyone.
We do not operate on just one mode but most people have a mode they favour.
一旦你了解了这一点，你就可以与周围的人进行更有成效的交流。
因此，通过在他们最喜欢的模式下对他们进行寻址，您将能够创建更有效的通信。
这就是为什么如此多的儿童被错误地贴上ADD或ADHD的标签，并被喂食强效药物的原因。
如果学校系统明白，通过让孩子们以他们最擅长的方式学习，他们就能获得更好的成功。
父母对孩子的想法有自己的看法。
你能从中得到什么？
首先，保持好奇心，发现你最喜欢的沟通方式。
然后你就可以利用这种力量在工作或家里更有效率。
这个n, you can explore the other modes and open-up to a whole new world.
下一步，有趣地发现对方的主要沟通方式。
然后，你可以利用这些新知识与周围的人更有效地互动。
在向人群讲话时，最好是通过听觉呈现、视觉材料，尽可能地接触到大多数人，并通过让动觉的人四处走动或写笔记，让他们享受自己的乐趣。
归根结底是：交流的基础永远是看着一个人的眼睛，当他们真诚地交谈和关心时，它总是表现出来的！
This article was contributed by Dr Nathalie Fiset
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